Melissa Hadley Barrett

The unexpected sexologist.

  • I founded Restorative Health Clinic, and I’m one of Australia’s longest practising Nurse Practitioners. With postgraduate qualifications in Sexology and extensive experience in men’s sexual health, I specialise in helping individuals and couples improve sexual function, intimacy and wellbeing. I combine medical expertise with a strong understanding of the psychological aspects of sexual health, offering evidence-based, compassionate care. I’ve supported thousands of men through prostate cancer recovery and other sexual health challenges, and I’m widely recognised as a speaker, educator and reviewer of international sexual health guidelines.

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  • People want, and need, to talk about sex, and my job is to make that easier. I’m comfortable discussing men’s sexual health and helping others learn how to approach these conversations. I speak at conferences across Australia and beyond, offering clear, practical and engaging education that resonates with audiences. As Dr Jane Foster says, my sessions are informative, entertaining and often prompt men to take important steps for their health.

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  • A fortnightly podcast sharing real stories from men about sexual health, cancer treatment, recovery and relationships, breaking the stigma through honest, practical conversations. It is your online men’s health support group, where questions that are often too embarrassing to ask are answered openly.

    Our goal is to connect science with lived experience, helping men start conversations they would never have at the pub or by the pool. By normalising discussion and early help-seeking, we aim to reduce the stigma around issues like prostate cancer, erectile dysfunction, Peyronie’s Disease and mental health.

    The podcast is for anyone affected by men’s health concerns, including partners and health professionals. We feature everyday men, expert guests and evidence-based insights to support listeners worldwide. When I’m not in clinic or recording, you’ll find me enjoying WA’s coastline, hiking or working on one of my many renovation projects.

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  • Our online programs make men’s healthcare more accessible, private and flexible. They are self-paced and designed so you can learn from home, which is ideal for men living rurally, interstate or overseas who may not have access to specialist services.

    We have three programs available: Prostate Cancer Penile Rehabilitation Program, Erectile Dysfunction Program and the Peyronie’s Disease Program.

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  • Click here to shop our extensive collection of medical rehabilitation devices, pleasure devices and lubricants. Fun for all genders.

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I’m a Nurse Practitioner and sexologist, for men just like you.

My passion is helping men restore their intimate health, and I do that by addressing the physical, and psychological sides of the issue. My consultations and programs have helped thousands of men over the years, and if you decide to work with me I’ll show you how to improve your sexual function, your relationships and your overall quality of life.

Whatever your issue is, chances are I’ve seen it before and I can help you.

For guidance, understanding and a road map through to the other side, you can book a consultation below or join one of my online programs. I look forward to helping you soon.

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I’m sure there are people who set out in this life to be a sexologist.

I ended up there quite unexpectedly, although now, I couldn’t imagine doing anything else. The opportunity to help so many people, through such difficult times in their lives is a gift, and one that I value enormously.

One in three people will have sexual dysfunction at some time in their lives, so if that’s you don’t worry, it’s perfectly normal and can often be resolved pretty quickly.

There are two questions I get asked all the time, so let’s just get them out the way right now, shall we?

“Why did you become a sexologist?”

Well, I started off working in an Emergency Department when I was young, then I moved to the middle of nowhere, and it all kind of snowballed from there…

Why I became a sexologist

“What is a sexologist?”

Many think of Barbara Streisand in ‘Meet The Fokkers’ or Gillian Anderson in ‘Sex Education’, and if you asked my children they’d say that’s a fair assessment, but we actually do some pretty important work…

What even is a sexologist?
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Sex is such an important part of our lives, and yet it’s one we hardly ever talk about.

I’d like to change that, and I’ve been doing it one conference, one podcast, one conference at a time.

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